In one year, Girl Growing Brighter has morphed from lazy thoughts & (hard-earned but) gratuitous-advice-that-nobody-asked-for, into a mash-up of a semi-political, self-help and dating blog. Where I sometimes talk too much about myself.
Today, about 9K of you honor this site each month. What brings you to my humble blog?
While most of your searches are hidden, here’s a glimpse into some of the internet searches I am able to see through my analytics page:
is it normal for exs to hangout right after a break up 2014 – (I wonder why this says 2014 after the search? Does the answer change per year? Also…. the answer is “Yes, it’s ‘normal.’ But it’s VERY unhealthy.”)
a guy told me that he loves me, he wanted to go out again and he promised that he had changed, but ended up getting another gf a week later – (He’s not good enough for you.)
flirting and monogamy (Wonder if this person was for or against it?)
my ex heart skips when he sees me but doesnt talk (His heart skips? How do you know?!? I want this skill!)
is she still in love with me after the brakeup (I wish we could find this answer on the internet… for reals.)
what funny things to say when you dont wanna text someone (I appreciate this person’s approach. Hope they got an answer somewhere, though it probably wasn’t here, since I’m not that funny.)
There’s more, which I will save for later. Mostly, I’m grateful for any search that leads you here.
And a special shout out to y’all who come back again and again!
*PS: OMG, I just realized the headline said “July.” Wow. I spaced. I have since changed this to the actual month, which is Sept.
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