………do you have any advice on responding to a guy#2 who hit on you 4 month after breaking up a long distance friendship with an ex-guy#1 (1st love of 16 years)?
I want to tell guy#2, I find him attractive, we share many interests as we volunteer together, but am not ready for a relationship so soon as I need to work on myself emotionally and financially. I don’t want him to be a rebound relationship either. He has been telling me he is available on Saturdays for two consecutive weeks. I just kept quiet when he was fishing for an invitation. How do I tell him without being rude? Also, I feel he might be younger than I. I’ve tried avoiding his advances…but its just plain rude.
Any advice would be appreciated.